Beyond Body Image: What Fat Studies Can Tell Us About Men’s Bodies

When we talk about body image, the conversation often centers on women—and for good reason. Women have long been subjected to intense cultural scrutiny surrounding weight, beauty, desirability, and appearance. But an article I recently read, “The Problem With Male Body Image”, reminded me of something that sits at the center of much of myContinue reading “Beyond Body Image: What Fat Studies Can Tell Us About Men’s Bodies”

You’re Entitled to Your Politics. You’re Not Entitled to Your Own Facts.

I came across this post on Facebook: “Just to clear the air: I’m a MAGA conservative, but that doesn’t mean what a lot of you apparently think it does. Let’s break it down, because I’m tired of being told what I believe and what I stand for. Spoiler: not every conservative is the same, butContinue reading “You’re Entitled to Your Politics. You’re Not Entitled to Your Own Facts.”

The Business of Belonging: Grindr’s Surprising Pivot to the Right

In a recent post from The Advocate, I’ve been following the coverage of Grindr’s deepening ties with the Republican Party, and it’s a shift that really makes you stop and think about where the “business” of being queer is headed. The article explores how Grindr, under CEO George Arison, is leaning hard into GOP circles—spendingContinue reading “The Business of Belonging: Grindr’s Surprising Pivot to the Right”

Straight Men, Same-Sex Experiences, and the Messiness of Labels”

Scrolling through BuzzFeed recently, I came across an article by Lauren Garafano that compiles anonymous accounts from straight-identified men describing their sexual experiences with other men. The piece draws from a Reddit thread asking, in essence, whether straight men have ever had “gay moments,” and the responses range from curiosity and experimentation to secrecy andContinue reading “Straight Men, Same-Sex Experiences, and the Messiness of Labels””

Unpacking Your Emotional Baggage of Past Possibilities and Longing for the Unknown

Lately, I have been living in the realm of “what if.” “what if” I had completed my social work degree? “what if” I had never cheated on my first true love? “what if” I had never moved to PA? “what if” I had stuck to my weight goals in 2016? “what if” I stayed atContinue reading “Unpacking Your Emotional Baggage of Past Possibilities and Longing for the Unknown”

Katy Perry Kisses A 19-Year-Old “American Idol” Contestant and He Didn’t Like It

As many of you have undoubtedly heard, American Idol, has returned to the television screen and found a new home on the ABC network. I recently ran across an article on Buzzfeed (the article is posted below) that shows Katy Perry kissing an American Idol contestant on the lips WITHOUT his consent and through the useContinue reading “Katy Perry Kisses A 19-Year-Old “American Idol” Contestant and He Didn’t Like It”

Valentine’s Day: An Opportunity for Giving

What is the big deal about celebrating Valentine’s Day? There are so many varying theories about St. Valentine, his validity, and the message of Valentine’s Day. I think we best begin at the beginning(s)….it’s going to get a little complicated on the history so buckle up and enjoy the ride. According to History.com, February 14thContinue reading “Valentine’s Day: An Opportunity for Giving”